PinnedMember-onlyWhy I No Longer Identify As A Swinger/LifestylerAbout a month before writing this article, I shared publicly on social media that I just didn’t resonate with being part of the Lifestyle/Swinger community any longer. After seven years of identifying and even being a leader to this community, something in me shifted and I changed my mind. …Swinger Lifestyle8 min readSwinger Lifestyle8 min read
Apr 17Member-onlyThe Importance of Consent in Somatic Sex Education for Survivors of Sexual TraumaIn this blog post, we can dive deeper into the topic of consent in somatic sex education. We’ll discuss how important it is to prioritize consent and how it can help survivors of sexual trauma feel safe and empowered in their healing journey. …Consent3 min readConsent3 min read
Apr 4Member-onlySomatic Sex Education and Sexual Trauma SurvivorsHello everyone! Today, I want to talk about something that is near and dear to my heart — somatic sex education for sexual trauma survivors. As a survivor of sexual trauma myself, I understand the importance of finding safety and pleasure in your body again. And that’s where somatic sex…Healing Sexual Trauma2 min readHealing Sexual Trauma2 min read
Jun 12, 2020Member-onlyOrgy 101 — Advice on Group Play & How to Plan One Yourself!Who here likes to experience group sex!?! James and I LOVE to be involved in orgies that are consensual, safe and FUN! It can be a beautiful experience! Orgies growing in popularity as more people shift towards exploring their sexual truths. …Open Relationships3 min readOpen Relationships3 min read
Jun 12, 2020Member-onlyAdvice for Men in Non Monogamous/Open RelationshipsMan I do love being in an open relationship!!! Why do you ask? Here are my top 5 reasons:Open Relationships3 min readOpen Relationships3 min read
Jun 12, 2020Member-onlyEthical Non Monogamy & Kink TerminologyFor some of the more seasoned Lifestyler’s and Non Monogamists reading this, these terms are probably old news. But to a lot of new couples interested in exploring themselves, even talking to other couples can be intimidating when you don’t know what they are saying or asking! I compiled a…Open Relationships5 min readOpen Relationships5 min read
Jun 12, 2020Member-onlyHow to Find Balance in Non Monogamous RelationshipsHow do couples in an open relationship navigate in the vanilla world? How do you balance sexy activities with vanilla life? Balance in the dictionary states “a condition in which different elements are equal or in the correct proportions.” When it comes to living in an open relationship, I believe…Relationship Advice3 min readRelationship Advice3 min read
Jun 12, 2020Member-onlyEverything You Want to Know About Swinger Lifestyle VacationsTravel is a HUGE part of the lifestyle! There are so many companies, groups, destinations, takeovers…it can be overwhelming! Especially for someone that is new. I know when we went on our first Lifestyle vacation in 2015 to Hedonism II, I was so nervous and had no idea what to…Swingers5 min readSwingers5 min read
Jun 11, 2020Member-onlyNaughty in N’awlins Trip Highlights (July 2019) | Day 5DAY 5 — SUNDAY JULY 28 — 😌SLEEP IN!!! Yay! We slept in last 10am! It was glorious! EXPLORE NOLA ON FOOT!!! We met another couple and set off to do some sightseeing of the city. We walked through the French Quarter along the Mississippi River towards Café Du Monde. James and I visited a cute market…Naughty In Nawlins3 min readNaughty In Nawlins3 min read
Jun 11, 2020Member-onlyNaughty in N’awlins Trip Highlights (July 2019) | Day 3 & 4DAY 3 — FRIDAY JULY 27 — NAUGHTY NEWS 2019 INTERVIEW WITH Average Swingers & Swinging Downunder! We had arranged an interview with Swinging Downunder and Average Swingers at 10:30 in the morning. Everyone showed up on time to record and it was an unreal podcast — listen here! We all added value to the different topics…Naughty In Nawlins6 min readNaughty In Nawlins6 min read
