Non Monogamy: How Do We Start?
This is probably the number one question I receive when I get a new e-mail from someone who came across my website. Couples are super interested in learning more about Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM)and the Lifestyle, but really are clueless on where to start. If anyone understands, we do! We started on crummy Craigslist before we learned what we have — and we had a lot of unfulfilling experiences too! It took a LOT of trial and error to find the most successful way (well for us anyways).
My first piece of advice is ALWAYS to let things happen organically. Like I said in previous posts, neither of us woke up announcing we wanted to be in non monogamous. It kind of just happened gradually over time through experiences we decided to partake in together. We talked about the fantasies we had, things we wanted to try or were interested in, and then we took the steps to make them a reality.
Have you already had that conversation and looking forward to making these fantasies happen? Great! There could be a number of ways you make these fantasies a reality! Meeting another couple from a secure site dating site niched toward those in open relationships is a great way to have a more intimate experience and gives…
