Everything You Want to Know About Swinger Lifestyle Vacations

Sex Ed for the Modern Bed
5 min readJun 12, 2020

Travel is a HUGE part of the lifestyle! There are so many companies, groups, destinations, takeovers…it can be overwhelming! Especially for someone that is new.

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I know when we went on our first Lifestyle vacation in 2015 to Hedonism II, I was so nervous and had no idea what to expect — it can be scary! But it was so worth it and an enormous amount of much fun. It also encouraged us to grow and do more Lifestyle-wise once we got back home.

In this article I plan to give you the tips you need to have an awesome Lifestyle vacation (based on experience) and provide info to help you decide what the best trip is for you!

Things You Should Know About Lifestyle Resorts:

  • These destinations are always ADULT ONLY! There are no children allowed!
  • Some are full nudity and some are topless only.
  • Sexually themed games that are popular and people usually dress a lot sexier.
  • Not everyone who visits these places are lifestylers — some go just to enjoy the more upbeat and fun atmosphere.
  • Most have designed “sex spots” or play rooms.
  • Sometimes an event is organized at a hotel and a hotel takeover happens. You can see this with companies like Naughty Events when they organize Naughty in N’awlins at two New Orleans hotels.
  • People come to these events from all over the world! It’s a great way to meet others outside of your local space.

What To Expect, Our Experiences and More!

The nice thing is everyone is from somewhere different so that is an easy way to strike up conversation with anyone new. Remember everyone is on vacation! We recommend asking people where they are from — it’s our favorite conversation starter.

Expect to encounter a variety of couples who like to experience different things in the lifestyle. Just like clubs, there are some people who only want to watch, some who just like the “freeing” atmosphere and some who love full swap. Again — ask! Again — good conversation starter! “What brings you here?”

Most places and events have theme nights so do some planning and try to create an outfit together to…

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