3 Tips for Those Interested in Non Monogamy

Interested in pursuing a non monogamous relationship? There are a few things to keep in mind before you open up and explore what is out there.

The Lifestyle/Non Monogamy is like a magnifying glass. Anything and everything will be enhanced while under it. If you have a solid relationship with a strong foundation — you will have a great time and experience an enhanced love together. If you lack communication and the ability to express yourself and your feelings in a healthy manner — that will be enhanced too.

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1. Do NOT try to “surprise” your partner or lover into non monogamy. A surprise visit to a Lifestyle club or meet-up with another couple can do more damage then good. If you are interested in a non monogamous relationship, then do some research first AND ensure you are giving your partner plenty of love and affection. This will help them to feel secure and loved in the relationship they have with you. Once you get a feel for what it is actually about, then talk to them. If you are unsure of how they will react, throw some teasers out there. Mention a hot video you watched or podcast you listened to and gauge their reaction. Talking about sex as a couple should be natural and comfortable. Once you talk about it, share the good research and information you found yourself. In many cases surprises are not sexy!